Wednesday, March 18, 2015
It doesn't end
So now she receives IgG that has been taken from donated blood and concentrated to boost her immune system. Every week she gets two needles taped into her belly and the IgG infuses for 2 hours. She gets tired and achy and nauseous but it is so much better.
Now we are focussed on healing and on dealing with the secondary issues. The heavy steroid use has left its mark on Lila and so now we focus on healthy behaviors and lifestyle as well as smaller issues that were overlooked before because her breathing was so fragile.
I look at everything we went through and I don't know how we made it. I question my decisions. I look back and wonder if I did the best I could. I don't know. I worry about what all these experiences will do to her as an adult. And then I feel guilty for wondering because I met so many kids who aren't going to get to be adults on this journey.
My heart aches when I think of all the ways I messed up as a friend, as a mother, and as the mother of a child with all these issues.
But I'm going to keep writing. The request was made from some folks who know us and I think it's good for me. So keep me company here from time to time, ok?
Monday, June 28, 2010
Was that a different girl?
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Checking In
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Shaken and Steadied
It’s been a little while since I’ve written, as I’m sure some of you noticed. I haven’t been sure what to write. In the midst of Lila still being sick we had something really, really difficult happen to our whole family. I can't talk about it more right now, although I hope to soon. But it was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through and has rocked our world. I didn't know how to post without posting about that event since it has been so foundation shaking for us. But I need to post. So many people have prayed and helped and journeyed with us, that you need to know how we are. So all I am going to say about this particular struggle is that we will be okay. Things feel good with our church (better now than in a while), Ben and I are holding strong together, and the girls are doing well. But we could use some extra prayers if you have any to spare.
Now to Lila. The reason why most of you are reading. Lila, after I wrote last, bounced back into the hospital one more time. She didn't really need to be in but she had a lips-turning-blue event. Her oxygen stats were okay afterward, but the doctor felt like she needed to be watched. So they watched. But she, I think, was at the tail end of this five week long spiral that was started with H1N1. So since then, which was ten days ago, we have watched her steadily improve. She's been playing outside again frequently; her peak flow numbers are much better (including a new high for her! yay for lung function!). The only sign that she has been sick is that she is still a little tired. She'll stop what she's doing every few hours and get her comfort things and find a place to cuddle down for ten or fifteen minutes. Then she's back at it. I feel more hope, more certainty really, watching her bounce back from this, that this was just a blip. That National Jewish really did make a huge difference and that we are back into normal life and routine. It feels good to have that feeling.
We are all healing as a family. We have drawn in together after this last bout and all our struggles. The holidays help that as well. I love this time of year. And I feel God's love, and our family's strength carrying us all through this and past this. Advent is a time for hope and expectation. I have both. In the darkness of the world, there is light. As the world rests and prepares for a new growing season, so do I. Really all I want for Christmas this year is having both my girls and the best husband I can imagine home with me and healthy. We have received so many gifts this year and I am celebrating them. We are blessed with a close community and a community so wide that we don't even know the extent of it, lifting us up. Thanks be to God. May your Advent be blessed.